How To Soften Cream Cheese: 5 Easy Ways For Every Occasion

My passion is for cooking. Every single meal I prepare is a fresh hit on my stage in the kitchen. Everyone who enjoys cooking has a certain ingredient that they try to include in practically all of their dishes. Cream cheese is one of my all-time favorite ingredients.

I use it as a topping on cakes and pastries as well as in sauces like Hollandaise, where I use cream cheese that has been combined with herbs, mustard, and lemon juice in place of beaten egg yolks.

It enhances the sauce’s flavor while giving it a lovely silky, smooth appearance. When I get my boys ready for school, I also put it into ice cream and even in their sandwiches.

I adore it since it complements practically every dish I prepare and gives everything a unique flavor. However, understanding how to deal with cream cheese is essential.

How To Soften Cream Cheese?

Many recipes will ask for softened cream cheese, and if you know how to soften cream cheese, that can help you gain the perfect texture. There are a few and easy ways you can soften cream cheese that don’t take much time, and they’re really helpful.

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Here are five quick and easy ways that I use when I need cream cheese to be softened:

Microwave – Fast and Easy Cream Cheese Softening

This is the fastest and easiest way to soften cream cheese.

What you need:

  • The microwave, obviously.
  • A microwave-safe plate so it can endure high temperatures. It can be ceramic or glass plates, don’t use plastic plates. Also, using a plate instead of a bowl lets you scrape off the cheese easier.
  • A ceramic knife to cut the cheese into evenly sized pieces so it can soften easier

After you heat the cheese for a while, remove it from the microwave and press it with a fork (or chopsticks) to test if it’s soft enough. If it’s not, return it to the microwave and heat for 10-20 seconds, and then repeat the process.

If you need more softness, unwrap the cheese and place it on a microwave-safe plate, and put it in the microwave on high for 10-20 seconds, and you are ready to go. Take it out of the microwave and test the softness. If it’s not soft enough, return the cheese to the microwave for additional 5-10 seconds. Repeat until you’ve reached the desired texture.

  • NOTE: Small increments of heating are necessary so you can monitor the texture closely. Too long heating will lead to melting, and we don’t want that.

This method works best if you want melted cream cheese fast. It will break it down quickly, and you’ll be ready to use it.

Room-Temperature-Softened Cream Cheese

Since I’m busy all the time picking up kids from school, testing kitchen utensils and gadgets, and grocery shopping, I don’t have much time just to sit around and wait for food to get ready. This method comes really handy for me in everyday cooking, especially when days get busy (you know, those days).

This is a great way to soften cream cheese if you plan your kitchen activities according to your daily schedule and want your ingredients to be ready when you enter the kitchen.

  • You just need a plate and cream cheese, and you are ready to go!

Take the cheese out of the refrigerator, place it on the plate and leave it on the kitchen counter for about 1,5-2 hours. After 1,5 hours have passed, squeeze the cheese to test the softness.

If it’s not soft enough, leave it for another 30 minutes and check again. This method shouldn’t take more than 2 hours to soften the cheese.

Soften the Cream Cheese with Lukewarm Water

This is a great way to soften your cream cheese if you have some spare time. It’s recommended for getting the optimal softness for usage in various meals when you don’t want it nearly liquefied.

What you need:

  • A larger bowl filled with warm or lukewarm water.

Make sure that you use a ceramic or glass bowl, don’t use a plastic one. If you use a plastic bowl, make sure that it’s BPA-free.

  • Use a Ziploc bag so you can prevent the water from touching the cheese.

If you don’t have a Ziploc bag, you can use plastic wrap but make sure you close it well, so the water doesn’t leak into the cheese.

Place the cheese in the Ziploc bag and make sure you get all the air out of the bag. Make sure your bag is completely sealed. If the cheese is not opened, you don’t need to put it in the Ziplock bag, you can put it straight in the water. Put the cheese into the lukewarm water and leave it in the water for 10 minutes.

  • NOTE: Don’t place the cheese in hot water because the hot water will melt the cheese.

Remove the cheese from the water and gently squeeze it to check its softness. If the cheese is still firm, put it back in the water for another 5 minutes. If it’s still not soft enough, you can change the water into a little warmer and place the cheese in it for additional 5 minutes. It should be softened after 20 minutes in water, no more than that.

Add Some Milk or Cream

Neutral-flavored dairy products are good for softening the cheese without it losing its taste. The procedure is simple, doesn’t take much time, and gives a nice creamy look to your cheese.

  • NOTE: Milk or cream softening is great if you need cream cheese for the frosting.

What you need:

  • A bowl where you put the cream cheese. Cut the cheese into small pieces so you can stir it easier.
  • A small amount of milk or cream

You just add a tablespoon of milk or cream to the cream cheese and stir it together until it’s soft. If it’s not soft enough, you can add a little more milk. Make sure you’re using room-temperature milk & cheese (get it out of the refrigerator at least an hour before this method).

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Softening the Cheese by Blending it

You can soften cream cheese with a mixer fresh from the refrigerator by simply cutting cheese into equally sized pieces and putting it in the tilt-head mixer. If you don’t have a tilt-head mixer, you can use the blender.

When using a blender, it’s best if you add a little water in it and then put the cheese in because that way, you’ll get that smooth, creamy look that you can see on television in your favorite cooking show.

  • NOTE: Don’t use a hand mixer because it will be really hard to soften cream cheese with it. Believe me, I was struggling with it before I bought a quality mixer.

Master the Cream Cheese Softening & Reap the Benefits!


Choosing the right way to soften cream cheese depends on how much time you have to spare. Each way works just fine, and it doesn’t need much effort, and everyone can do it with ease.

Microwave and blending will work if you need quick and fast softening, but it sometimes tends to change the texture of the cream cheese. So make sure you use this way only if you don’t have much time to spare.

If you do have some time to spare, you can soften cheese with lukewarm water or even room temperature. Room temperature is, in my opinion, maybe the perfect way to soften your cheese without even needing to be present. Think about it, you go outside, and when you go back, it’s done!

But no matter which way you choose, you won’t regret it. Make sure that you don’t leave the cheese out of the fridge for more than 3 hours – you will waste some decent cheese, and that’s blasphemy!

Cream cheese, like many dairy products, can’t last for a long time. Once you unwrap it and use it, you need to store it properly by putting it in a glass airtight container or Ziploc bag and then in the fridge. That way, you can use it again but make sure that you don’t store it longer than 10 days because it will go bad.

I hope you’ll use my advice and make some delightful recipes with cream cheese! All the best! 🙂

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